Positive Attitude is not a gimmick; It’s my way of life.
I choose gratitude as my tool for maintaining a positive attitude. I enjoy living a happy life by showing gratitude to the people that I deal with. It is a CHOICE to live happy. You can choose to be happy too.
People get “positivity” confused with “fantasy” sometimes.
Positivity doesn’t mean that bad things don’t happen to me.
Positivity doesn’t mean that the universe must favor me or any of my plans.
Positivity doesn’t even guarantee success after you spend a lifetime doing the
“right thing” along your journey. Positivity DOES give you the tool to handle any negative situation,
by always looking for the good no matter what you are faced with.
The night
before Thanksgiving 2015 in San Juan, Puerto Rico somebody smashed the window of our car at the Afrika Club. We were there to film a live performance of recording artist Eddie Lamenaza, but when we got back to our car from checking in with the club
manager, the film and audio equipment was gone. Any "indie" filmmaker knows how bad this sucks.
A few of the items were:
Canon DSLR Camera
2 Lenses
H5 Zoom Audio
Lavalier Microphone
SD Cards
Batteries
Why did this happen to me? Am I a bad person? Is this Karma
from something that I did when I was 16 years old? Where is this negativity
coming from?
……..NONE of those questions matter.
I started to think about: I volunteer with veterans, I mentor kids, I help non-profit
organizations, I treat people well, I even take my dog to the beach…… So, why
me?
……..NONE of those things matter either.
(Brendan Masters, San Diego, CA - Plays Buckets. No Excuses.)
I DO what I do because it makes ME happy. The universe
doesn’t trade my good deeds for a lower amount of negativity that can come my
way. I can’t control WHAT happens to me in my life. We only have control of about
10% of anything that happens in our lives. I only have control over my reaction when something
good or bad happens to me.
Fact: My film
& audio equipment is gone.
Fact: It’s time
for my reaction…….
I kept it cool. I thought to myself, “Good. I hope he bought
his family a nice Thanksgiving Day dinner with the money he got for that
stuff.”
“Maybe this is a sign that I needed to put the camera down,
and focus on bigger things?”
“Now I have an opportunity to learn PhotoShop more. Or maybe
I can buy a better camera? Oh damn, we should call the cops.”
That was my REAL reaction. I didn’t react this way because
it would look better for a blog. I didn’t react this way because I thought that
it would help to magically bring my stuff back. I reacted this way
because I KNEW my stuff was gone. I could not control that situation from happening to
me. I also knew that anger, hate, and over-thinking only leads to the BAD
me. Positivity and
forward-thinking take a massive amount of work to achieve.
I do everything that I can to protect my mind and spirit from any negative thoughts entering or being created within myself.
I do everything that I can to protect my mind and spirit from any negative thoughts entering or being created within myself.
Why would I poison myself with hate because somebody chose
to do something bad to me? It doesn’t make sense to make myself FEEL bad for
something that I didn’t have any control over.
Staying positive helps me keep a clear mind so I can make
better decisions in tough times.
(Combat Veteran, USMC (Ret.) CPL Juan Dominguez; A HAPPY guy)
I didn’t post this on Facebook when it first happened because it
was one day before a holiday break. I didn’t want people to see negativity on
their timelines, and I’m happy that I did that. It gave me time to focus on being happy with the people
around me, instead of waiting to read the comments on a post about something
bad that happened to me. By choosing to not post about this situation, I have
been able to keep my mind clear of negativity.
Negativity destroys creativity, and I can’t afford that.
Thank you to my friend Luiz Burgos (U.S. Navy Veteran) for inviting us to enjoy Thanksgiving Day with his family in Caguas, PR. I'm happy that I didn't make an excuse of having a broken window to not go from Bayamon to Caguas to enjoy time with our Puerto Rican family. Saying YES is part of the happiness equation.
Negativity destroys creativity, and I can’t afford that.
Thank you to my friend Luiz Burgos (U.S. Navy Veteran) for inviting us to enjoy Thanksgiving Day with his family in Caguas, PR. I'm happy that I didn't make an excuse of having a broken window to not go from Bayamon to Caguas to enjoy time with our Puerto Rican family. Saying YES is part of the happiness equation.
Very respectfully,
George Ohan
Entrepreneur
Puerto Rico
"Lead from the front."
"Lead from the front."